Make the sauce: In a large deep pan, saute the chopped onion in 2 tablespoons of vegetable oil until soft but not brown, about 10-12 minutes. Add the flour and mix it in with onions, cook for 4 minutes. Slowly add 2 cups of the reserved cooking liquid, mixing as you are pouring it to prevent lumps from forming. Add the sugar, lemon juice and raisins, season with 1 teaspoon salt. Place the sliced tongue into the sauce and stir to cover the meat with sauce. Braise the tongue over fairly low heat, partially covered, so it is simmering slowly. Allow the tongue to cook for about 1 hour 45 minutes to make sure the tongue is very tender and has absorbed the flavors of the sauce.