Growing up in the small Jewish community of Denmark, Margit Sheftelowitz remembers that Christmas Eve was a special time in the city of Copenhagen. Christian families headed to Church before dinner in homes with Christmas trees. Margit’s family didn’t go to church, or have a Christmas tree, but her parents made the evening a celebration. Margit would drive with her father to pick up her grandparents for dinner. “The whole city of Copenhagen was in a special atmosphere,” she explains.
At home, her mother Hilde would prepare a festive meal of chicken soup with lokshen noodles, and duck with potatoes and red cabbage. For dessert, Hilde borrowed from the Danish Christmas dinner tradition and made risalamande, a rice pudding with apples and one blanched almond tucked into it. The person who found the almond in their portion received a special gift. “In Denmark, in the shops, you have a special table with presents,” just for this tradition, Margit explains. Sometimes, the Christmas Eve family dinner “came together with Hanukkah and sometimes it didn’t,” she adds. Either way, it was celebrated.
When Margit moved to Israel in 1961, Christmas was no longer all around her, but Hanukkah was. She started to host Hanukkah parties for her family, a tradition she’s maintained for nearly 60 years. When her three children were little, she prepared a traditional Shabbat dinner including chicken soup and chopped liver for the Hanukkah party, which she hosts on the Friday that falls during the holiday. Today, everyone, including her son Uri, the owner of Lehamim Bakery in Tel Aviv, contributes to the meal and the menu changes a bit every year.
There are a few constants, though. Margit kept two of the Christmas traditions from Copenhagen, transferring them to Hanukkah in her home in Israel. She makes aebleskiver, small Danish doughnuts that are traditionally served around Christmas time — using a particular skillet she received from her mother. She borrows from the Christmas rice pudding recipe and tucks an almond into one doughnut for someone to discover. Just like when she was little, the person who finds the almond receives a special gift from her.
And she still makes the risalamande. Only a few family members love it, she explains, but “I always make a little because it belongs.”
Find more Hanukkah recipes in our holiday collection.