Shared by Ayala Hodak
Four Women, Three Countries, One Yom Kippur Recipe
Four Women, Three Countries, One Yom Kippur Recipe
Family Journey
Ayala Hodak was a cook in residence, sharing several stories and recipes with the JFS archive. Read about the Persian sweet her family enjoys for Yom Kippur breakfast, her mother's herb omelet and ghormeh sabzi, a Persian herb stew. You can find all of her recipes in her recipe box here.
When Ayala Hodak, the co-owner of New York Israeli restaurant Taboon, moved from Israel to the U.S. 21 years ago, her friends became her adopted local family. She hosts them for Yom Kippur break fast, preparing a menu centered around one dish: shifteh berenji, a meatball-laden soup made tangy with dried Persian limes and sweetened slightly with carrots. She serves it after breaking the fast on challah, hard boiled eggs, and her family’s take on faloodeh, a cold sweet dish made with apples and rosewater.
“Every year when we eat it at Yom Kippur, my husband says: ‘Wow, this is so good; you should make it more often,’” Ayala says. She responds: “It’s not going to taste the same.” It’s a treat, reserved exclusively for the holiday. She’s not quite sure why, but says that maybe it offers her a unique connection to home.
The shifteh berenji is a blend of recipes from no fewer than three matriarchs: her mother and both of her grandmothers. Maheen, Ayala’s mother moved to Israel from Tehran when she was only 13. She arrived with two of her siblings with the help of a youth Aliyah movement called Aliyat Hanoar. There, she was sent to a kibbutz and given the Israeli name Yafa. When she got married as a young woman to a Persian man, her mother-in-law Dalia taught her to cook Persian dishes from their shared homeland.
Yafa’s cooking became a blend of Dalia’s recipes and those she remembered making as a young girl with her mother in Tehran. “When you’re a good cook, you don’t have to have a recipe to make something,” Ayala explains. “As you make it once, twice, three times, you get the flavors that you feel are the right flavors.” It was that way with much of Yafa’s cooking and, Ayala believes, with the shifteh berenji. The recipe was a blend of Dalia’s and memories of the one Yafa’s mother made in Iran. Yafa adapted it though, adding prunes to the dish, hiding them in the center of the meatballs as a surprise for each diner.
As Ayala built a new life for herself in New York, she missed the recipe around Yom Kippur and called her mother for it 20 years ago. “Since then I make it every year,” Ayala adds. This year, included, of course.